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Queer Rites Of Passage: Story As Ceremony with Toadstool Walks


Queer Rites Of Passage: Story As Ceremony with Toadstool Walks

July 6 - 12, 2026 Registration Closes: June 29, 2026

A contemporary Queer Rite Of Passage program, designed for the modern Queer adult human seeking a supportive space to claim themself within the context of the current times we are living in.

Whether stepping into adulthood, middlehood, parenthood, elderhood, otherhood, marking a transition, an ending, a beginning, celebrating, grieving, this is an opportunity for a threshold experience, witnessed and supported by Queer guides, community, and the land. 

Many of our ancestors may have experienced the potency of community supported rites of passage and we believe that initiated Queer adults bring an important flavor of collective healing by realizing and claiming our gifts while being seen. Let’s mark our gender affirming surgeries, hormone-related therapies, name changes, breakups, commitments, current roles, and identities by pausing together in witness and support!

Inspired by solo fasts, vision quests, nature therapy, forest bathing, traditional and nontraditional rites, rituals, and ceremonies of all kinds, this is a community call to those who feel the pull to go deep around the campfire with fellow kin who are curious and feeling the call to step into our expansive ways of being.

Traditional land-based rites of passage programs are often set in wild, remote, off-grid environments where some backcountry experience is necessary as questers typically head off into the wilderness for a multi-day solo fast from food, people, and shelter.

Neither backcountry experience nor special outdoor gear will be needed for this program. We will be living together on forty acres of private retreat space set in the rolling meadows and forested foothills of Southern Vermont. Basecamp at Beaver Falls is nestled beside an expansive pine and hemlock forest with a river running alongside wide, flat, well-marked trails. Accommodations include both camping, indoor lodging and meals. 

This six day program is an invitation to those who may be craving more than a weekend-long retreat but may not be drawn to, ready, or able to participate in an extended multi-week off-grid initiation due to time, resources or other barriers. This program centers the story circle as the ceremony, meaning that the sharing and listening is what will inform and shape the 24 hour threshold ceremony, along with the support of the land and the guides. Some participants may determine that their threshold ceremony may involve a fast from food, people, and/or shelter, while others may benefit from a ceremony that looks radically different. 

This Queer Rite of Passage program is a response to the modern day reality that there are many ways to give space to human seasons of becoming, that there is no one path of initiation that fits all, but there are major benefits for you, your community, the land and beyond, that come with exploring these potent acts of marking time, crossing thresholds, and creating our own ceremonies with the love and support of experienced guides.

*This event is substance-free, which means we ask folks to leave alcoholic beverages and non-prescription substances at home. You do not need to identify as a person in recovery to join a substance-free event with us. For more on our trip substance policies, you can click to view our General Trip and Refund Policies here.



GENERAL INFO

Location: Basecamp at Beaver Falls, Halifax, VT
(Wabanaki and Elnu Abenaki Lands)
Age: 18+
Start Date: July 6, 2026 - Arrival @ 2-4pm - Opening Circle at 5pm
End Date: July 12, 2026 - Departure @ 11am
Cost: $1000-$1775 sliding scale
To find out where you fall best in our sliding scale, see the “How much should I pay?” dropdown below.
Includes: All meals, lodging, programming
Doesn't Include: Personal clothing, toiletries, flights

ABOUT YOUR GUIDES

Tam Willey (they/them) and Jett Cazeaux-Moore (they/them) met at the first Queer Mirroring Guide Training offered via Wild Mountain in 2022 where they became close friends. They each bring extensive guiding experience as well as deep care to rites of passage ceremonial practice. Together they founded the Butch Legacy Death Club, where they have been supporting each other to get their affairs in order with an intention to ultimately support others to do the same. Tam and Jett are a nurturing paternal dynamic duo and could not be more thrilled to be co-guiding this program.

Tam Willey (they/them) is a nature based guide and mentor, exploring themes of belonging and attention through story and immersive ways of being together that support a culture of reciprocity and relational kinship. Tam's work is informed by their background as an artist, musician, local handy person, children’s woodworking instructor, custodian, skateboarder, LGBTQIA+ youth advisor, community advocate, and trainer of nature therapy guides across the globe with the Association of Nature and Forest Therapy. Tam is passionate about bioregional herbalism, community supported agriculture, fermentation, food reclamation, skill sharing, rites of passage, tech wellness, and outdoor recreation. Tam has been collaborating with The Venture Out Project since 2017 as an instructor, community liaison, and guide, launching the first Queer Forest Bathing retreat in 2018 in Lyle, Washington.

Tam holds CPR, First Aid, Wilderness First Aid, Mental Health First Aid, Wilderness Mental Health First Responder, and Nature Therapy Guide certifications.

For more information about Tam, check out ToadstoolWalks.com.

Jett Cazeaux-Moore (they/them) has been surrounding themselves with folks practicing ceremony and creatively marking events in communion with the natural world since their first Saturn Return, nearly twenty five years ago. Jett has found healing in the natural world & in community, and followed this thread with opportunities over the next 15 years. They have worked for Outward Bound & Open Sky Wilderness Therapy on the Colorado Plateau, as a practitioner of Joanna Macy’s Work that Reconnects, have a degree in Ecopsychology from Prescott College with focus on experiential education & community involvement, have been an Organizer for the 2nd largest small town Pride events in Moab, UT., and guided with Pacific Quest horticultural therapy. Most recently, they’ve graduated as a somasource practitioner for a movement based rites of passage program in Boulder, CO.

Jett has collected these lived experiences like talismans & tools to better serve, heal and share with those along the path. They’re so excited to support you in this story that is calling to you at this time in your life.